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Carnal Cravings: How Bad Do You Want it?

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There is nothing more human than the desire to connect with another person on a physically intimate level. The pull of passion, the eroticism of an embrace, the sensual assault on the senses, breathless bodies climbing to the height of climax; all of these things make sex one of the greatest experiences of human existence. There are very few things that are as addictive as an orgasm, especially if it's done right! The consuming explosion of  a hormonal cocktail that is powerful enough to give you a high that is beyond comprehension, is what keeps us craving the carnal caresses of intercourse. Unfortunately, there are some who have challenges enjoying sex because of Chronic Pelvic Pain caused by illnesses like Endometriosis, Vulvodynia, PFD, etc. For women battling these physical aliments, the mere thought of sex can be overwhelming, daunting, and terrifying. Because I have struggled in this area, I feel that I am more than capable of helping women reclaim their love of lascivious...

Peace Without Closure....

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In general closure answers the question why . As humans, we want to know why . If we know why, we can embrace our circumstances and make peace with it but what do we do when we don't know why ? What do we do when closure means accepting what is but not understanding why it is? If a person has HIV/AIDS they know why they have it. If a person smoked and ended up with Lung Cancer, they know why . These people possess the ability to accept their condition and either fight it or give in to. The bottom line is they know why and in that knowing, if they desire, they can find closure. Yet, the question remains, what do you do when you don't know why? How do you embrace something that has no known reason or cause? How do you accept an enemy when you don't know where it came from or why it has invaded your life? How do you fight the invisible? This is a question that women like me find ourselves struggling to answer each and everyday.  As I sat in the bathtub today, why me...