Carnal Cravings: Getting Reacquainted

You've felt it before, the ache, the burning, the awareness that your body is awakening to stimulation. Now, disconnect those sensations from pain.  Because we are women who battle illnesses of the reproductive areas, we have become so accustomed to pain. We have a challenging time embracing any other feelings in our bodies. Yes, pain is a part of our existence but we have to learn how to stop it from hijacking our entire physical being.  If you are serious about regaining your sex life, the first step is to get reacquainted with yourself, with your body.  Recognize that there is more to you than Endometriosis, Pelvic Pain, Infertility, PCOS, etc.  Your body is capable of experiencing pleasure and passion. The only thing standing between you and luxuriously Labia swelling, clitoral climaxing,  lovemaking  that leads to orgasmic euphoria is, YOU! There are a few things that you need to do to rediscover your body. The most important being, change your perception of self.  Before you can engage in any sexual encounter, you have to get your head in the game.

What Are You Saying To Yourself
Your voice is the most powerful sound that  you will ever hear. If you are speaking or thinking negative things about your physical self, you are convincing yourself that you are undesirable. If you don't feel sexy, you can't exude sexiness. You have to reaffirm and commit to the belief that you are worthy of being wanted and craved. It has to be in you in order for it to come out of you.

See Your Body
Vision is powerful but it is also subjective.  How you think impacts what you see.  If you want to feel desirable, learn to see yourself as alluring, lovable, and ravishing.  Find ways to see beyond what you feel. If there is any benefit to having an invisible illness, its the fact that it is completely internal, its hidden. Instead of letting that be a negative, in this instance, use it as an advantage. Find pictures of you on occasions where you looked hot, post those pics everywhere, and get into your mind, change how you see YOU. Let those photos take you back to that moment when you were feeling yourself. Remember that feeling, remember what fragrance you were wearing, remember how you felt in that moment; now relive all of those sensations until they become apart of who you are.

  

Lastly, acknowledge that you are more than a woman living with Adenomyosis, Pain, Vulvodynia, Fibroids, etc. You are an amazing entity  fashioned by love to be loved. You possess the capabilities to experience gratifying sex but it all begins with YOU. Now I ask you, How Bad Do YOU Want It?